The Wisdom of Spoken Word Artist Sarah Kay (part 1)

Recently, I rediscovered TED Talks. I fell in love again instantly and then spent the next three hours watching 15 minute moments of brilliance and commenting as the TED Community member I am.

I crafted my profile thoughtfully, hoping to attract like-minded TED-sters. We are not limited these days to the people in our immediate physical communities and I invite my readers to see that for the gift it is.  We live in an age that allows for us to have friends and colleagues around the globe and to live more than one life in our life time:

One TED  Talk presenter got my undivided attention for the first hour. Sarah Kay of Project V.O.I.C.E

http://www.ted.com/talks/sarah_kay_how_many_lives_can_you_live.html

How Many Lives Can You Live?

If you have a desire to be a writer then I have one simple piece of counsel.

Write. And find the courage to share it.

One comment by a John Smith on this TED Talk struck me for it could have been my words:

The only way to learn to write is to write. There is no substitute. There will never be. You can’t sit back and THINK about writing, you have to write. It’s the same with everything else. Here’s the catch, tho. Some people are born with an instinct about what sounds right. They write (or play music or do mathematics or hang dry wall) and that instinct gets stronger. I don’t know Sarah but I can guarantee that she spent hours and hours reading and writing from the time she was little. Though she has found her ‘voice’, I can also guarantee that she’s a voracious reader and writer even now. There’s another thing everyone needs to know about people who are good at what they do: they HAVE to do it. Sarah probably HAS to write. Something in them compels them to do it. When you’re not compelled to write  you may put it off.

To have a voice you need to spend your 10,000 hours just like everyone else.

Hence, he the original commentator suggested reading Malcolm Gladwell’s Outlier (on The Reason for Success) over doing The Artist Way.  I recommend reading Malcolm Gladwell anytime AND embracing The Artists Way process for it supports developing confidence in our writing skills and stretches us creatively in the process. I concur it is magickal to be a voracious reader and writer!

AND I would reiterate that writers of every level capture the raw moments experienced via spontaneous writing and then step away from editing it. When you return to this writing, you will find “coal” that could be transformed into a “diamond.”

First pass is best unedited. Therein is the pure and raw feelings and thoughts. Then let it sit some and return to edit to the piece that can be healing for you and helpful for others.

We must remember we are humans having seemingly individual experiences BUT in truth, we are never the only one feeling what we are feeling.

When we share our experiences people come forward to say, “me too.”

Bottomline from this lifelong student of writing and the spoken word: The more permission/freedom we give ourselves to capture our napkin notes as life is lived, the better a writer and storyteller we will become.

It cannot be avoided when we practice the craft with enthusiasm, commitment, passion and an open mind seeking to improve as much as we can. Good writing and art comes in many forms.

The question is which suits you best as a medium for authentic self-expression?

I pledge to Cultivate the Poet.

I pledge to Cultivate the Writer.

I pledge to Cultivate the Artist.

I pledge to Cultivate the Creative Thinker that I Am.

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Dear Gratitude, It’s me Wish-filled Thinking.

Sometimes it is really hard to be happy for the times that don’t work out. The times that don’t work out in my life have been about jobs and opportunities, relationships of all kinds, test grades, and a couple dozen or so lottery tickets for it is said that if you don’t play you can’t win. If you don’t ask the answer is no. Plenty of lovely cliches to volley about like a badminton birdie.

And that these stumbles are a gift is quite frankly hard to hear, feel and feel deeply~ at least at first.

Yes, I know logically, to adopt an attitude that bad things happening to good people can be turned into an advantage, fine, just let me grieve and have my breakdown (with some unconditional support, please) before you expect me to get up for the eighth time after falling down seven. My knees and palms are bruised and need a rest.

For this split second, I feel like one of those kids who should be on the “nice” list of Santa’s at Christmas, but I some how wound up on the “not-so-nice” list and like Charlie Brown, got only rocks in my Halloween Candy Bag.

What gives? How am I supposed to be upbeat when there is a history of a downpour and I have again left the house without an umbrella.

So what is an eternally hopeful soul to do?

Is it okay if I cry a while? Shall I shred a phonebook that never did a mean deed to me?

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Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. You tell me. (You always tell me this.)

Okay, I will. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. (And I feel Spirit as a warm wind enveloping me like that soft fleece blanket I cherished as a babe and was unwilling to give up as a growing child for to me it was forever soft despite the wear and tear of endless use.)

Even when my body feels in chaos inside and my mind takes a wander down to the shadowy side, and my heart feels for a moment so weighted down, Spirit appears with wings and warmth and ways to lift the heaviest of heartaches.

I’ll see the crisis of my own or of the friend as the gift it can be in time.

I remind myself I Create My Reality and Angels Beat a path to my door to support my vision.  I have remembered to ask for help and be grateful.

I  AM once again Gratitude my Self.

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What will you place in “The Circle”?

“It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship.
Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment,
it will not be created for years or even generations.”

Khalil Gibran

Consider this quote if you will; entertain me a while, please and say it once substituting the word “creativity” or “self-expression” and sit with that a moment. This quote found at the Quotes page of British Astrologer Jonathan Cainer, leapt from the page when I scanned the submitted quotes. (I have a quote of my own to submit that I will share at the end of this so stay tuned in, please.)

Consider also a VERY simple concept, eloquently presented by author Laura Day in the book of the same name: The Circle: How the Power of a Single Wish Can Change Your Life.

“The Circle is an energetic state of being that allows us to connect with ourselves, with one another, and with the transformative powers of the universe. In The Circle, what you perceive, what you conceive, and what you create are one–and you are at one with the infinite energy and possibility of creation.”

Place in “The Circle” the very ideas that you can, you will, you must and you will be well-received, successful, accountable, productive and any other “wish” that is your fancy. Let people know you are open to growing, changing and adopting attitudes that serve your highest good and others. Ask for help and support. Keep a journal. Honor the ritual of speaking your “wish” as though it already existed. Offer a vibrant, specific, positive, passionate picture of what is.

Watch the magick happen.

WALTER LOGEMAN: ART BLOG ~ In The Moment
What will you place in The Circle?

And consider…Engaging a champion be it a fellow writer or someone professionally who you will listen to when they offer suggestions. We grow when we stretch ourselves. It is only natural.

And about my addition to Jonathan Crainer’s collection of quotes:

Love is omni-inclusive, progressively exquisite, understanding and tender and compassionately attuned to other than self. –Buckminster Fuller

Attunement with the forces all about us in the Universe at large is what it is all about for this Creator/Manifestor. What will it be about for you?

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From this day forward…

Dear Reader,

If you have arrived here now, it is for a reason.

My vow to myself and all who follow this particular blog is a longer bit of expressing my gratitude and wonder.

So, I invite you subscribe to the blog knowing that daily as I start my day, there will be a “reflection” or a wish and a prayer for the readers.

Sometimes a canvas wider than 400 characters is needed. Subscribe if you are called.

Visit as you are curious.

Blessings.

Deborah Drake
Co-founder. Writer. Dreamer. Catalyst.

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Thanksgiving 2011

Blessed Being and Reader:

I invite you….

Take a deep breath, close your eyes, open your hearts wide and take stock of ALL you have to be grateful for.

And knowing that how will you make a difference not just today but tomorrow.

We are in a state of holiday bliss and family connection whenever we CHOOSE it.

Imagine it is simple and so IT is.

And for the people we miss the most,  cast a long warm virtual embrace and see them feeling it wherever they are.

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I am the next bloom on the cherry tree about to burst wide open, the next new leaf about to unfold its green self, and the song about to erupt from the robin red breasted and boldly singing to source of its Gratitude. –Authentic Writing Provokes – Deborah Drake

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How To Write Affirmations: A Philosophy for Success(ful Writing) from Mahatma Ghandi

Consider…

Your BELIEFS become your THOUGHTS;
Your THOUGHTS become your WORDS;
Your WORDS become your ACTIONS;
Your ACTIONS become your HABITS;
Your HABITS become your VALUES;
Your VALUES become your DESTINY.

…and use the power of words written, spoken, felt and sensed to describe, visualize, realize all of the above.

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Affirmations for Children: May You Feel Love Always

This Post on Affirmations is dedicated to the Children in our lives and the Child in all of us.

It’s been way too long since I wrote and I realized why today. I am not giving myself the freedom to simply express my Self at my most spontaneous best.

Then a question was asked by a friend of mine, who works in service to children day in and out. Margit Crane of Gifted Teens, Gifted Parents, who is herself a counselor and coach to Teens with ADD and their families.

She posed a question to her community today, and I am in that pond so I answered the following question:

What is the most important thing you can give your kids?

Resilience?

Emotional Security?

A Good Education?

Financial Security?

I ultimately chose one but commented: “Hard to select one only…I’m drawn to resilience as the foundation for having all the others in time. But then I think well that is grounded in emotional security. The seeds of resilience lie in emotional security, yes, that is it.”

To the children in the world and those nearest and dearest to me I compose the following heartfelt and spontaneous affirmations for you and your parents to use as often as you will and can:

Child of mine, may you know deep love from the moment you are conceived.

Child of mine, may you grow to be emotionally secure and unstoppable in your creative expression always.

Child of mine, may you be supported through all stages of your growth and development.

I could go on and create affirmations for you all day long, oh children in my life and in this world at large.

Bottomline: May you know love and feel supported to fly from this nest I created for you long before you were born. And may you sense the presence of love all the days of your being of the earth.

What are the affirmations you tell the children in your life? And remember, these will always apply to the child of every age in you as well!

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Validate Yourself!

I love this  indie film as much as ever. Affirmations! When was the last time you validated yourself or another?

No time like the present!

Validation

Watch daily and as often as needed.

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Isha I Love You.

Giving and Receiving
by Jaggi Vasudev

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Giving and receiving is the basis of all transactions. No interaction can take place without these two. Nowadays, we are constantly trying to elevate one to a place of sanctity and the other to subordination. One is considered superior and the other inferior. Today, we feel we must emphasize the importance of giving only because taking happens in large volumes and giving has become scarce.

In reality, however, there is no giving or taking. With a little deeper perception of life, one can see that there is no such thing as giving and taking. It is just life rearranging itself constantly. Modern science agrees with this today. There is no giving and taking, no adding or subtracting, just a rearrangement of the same energy. If you see everything as yours, you just rearrange as necessary.

When you realize that the essential process of life is a constant transaction, you will realize that for an iota of offering that you make, there are a trillion things to receive all the time. Think of the forces of existence and the zillions of creatures working, knowingly or unknowingly, within your body and outside of it, to make life possible. Everything in the existence is somehow collaborating to keep you alive and well. Only a fool thinks of himself as a giver. Just to be alive is to receive in great abundance.

–Jaggi Vasudev, in Is Philanthropy Outdated

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It’s been over two years since I was in the presence of Sadhguru, when he came to Bellevue and addressed a crowd of over 1500. He saw so clearly. He laughed and told stories with a simple effervescence and when I laughed at one point, he looked right at me and I felt spiritually whitewashed in that moment. He took my breath away and filled me with light and joy and the feeling dancing in me was childlike and simple bliss.

Will I ever see him again? Do I need to? His presence is felt whenever I recall the exchange that day in March. And that is exquisite.

Here is hoping you all were loved deeply today by a beloved in your life.

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